Saturday, March 24, 2018

March into the Night

Saturday night.
The dogs won’t stop barking.
It is right on this day.

Don’t let us be quiet and sit in a comfortable space.

Hold our attention!
Be loud! 
Cry out!

We have been complacent.
We have forgotten.
We have been scared.

Don’t let us be!

Remind us of youth.
Remind us of hope.
Remind us of the power of big love.

Leave arms for embracing.
Leave the branches shaking.
Leave silence for no one.

March on, children, march on!

Sunday, March 11, 2018

Hours

It is a long flight from Buenos Aires to Miami. It is (glorious!) uninterrupted reading time so I try to save this space for a book I expect will be a treasure.  In this case, I both wanted to read and hesitated to read because I already knew the ending.  The Bright HourA Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs was beautiful.

I first became acquainted with Nina Rigg's story via a 2016 NYT "Modern Love" column about a couch.  This short anecdote, her writing style, and her Greensboro, NC base caught a piece of my heart and didn't let go.  In early January, I read another article about her husband, John, and Lucy, wife of Paul Kalanithi, in the Washington Post and knew Ms. Riggs' book would be the book for this journey.  [I've heard a lot of great reviews about "When Breath Becomes Air" but this year I've primarily been reading women authors and I wanted to give this heavy topic a woman's view first.] 

Chapter 22 is entitled "Faith" and I was particularly affected by:
"For me, faith involves staring into the abyss, seeing that it is dark and full of the unknown--and being okay with that.  And if I can achieve that--BREATH, STOP BREATHING, BREATHE--even for a quick moment, that is truly something. - p 276 (Kindle version)
I was unprepared that in reading the Afterword, I would finish the book exactly one year after her last breaths.  (I'm eternally grateful that the Delta flight crew is un-judging to crying readers.) Rather than being left with a feeling of sadness, this book is a wonderful reminder of our fragile moments, the wonder of laughter, and the gift of love. 

Add The Bright Hour to your reading lists.